Here's one for the memory books. P.S. When I looked in the mirror after I got home, to check the 'damage"...I noticed a red spot just under my nose. I had wiped so hard , I bruised myself!!! A little red spot about the size of a pencil eraser....right.under.my.friggin.nose!!! The fun never stops! |
I'm undiscribable at times,loving,compassionate, blah,bla... I fell in love with my husband within the first week we met and after 36 years I'm still madly in love with him. Even counting the 23 years with him in the USMC. I still get giddy whenever he calls. The parentals have moved in with us and I'm on fabulous meds!! LMAO
About Me
Sunday, October 28, 2007
My life......for your entertainment.....
Thursday, October 25, 2007
I'll never be too old to be....
Embarrassed!! And.....by my parents no less. Whenever something happens to my folks, they have a question that they ask everyone they see.... some people they don't know , but they will ask...."Where were you when _______ happened?" Case in point. My Dad went to the Dr. because his hand has been hurting for quite a while. Mom and I told him it was probably arthritis but he wanted to see the Dr.....Ok..So, the Dr. x-rays it and sure enough it's arthritis. But he gives my Dad a sort of hand splint, the kind you see bowlers wear. So now, whenever he goes somewhere he'll hold up that hand with the splint and say to.... whomever is close..." Where were you when I got this?" ..Geesh! Now my Mom is joining in. Because as I've already established she's an attention whore and she can't let my Dad 'one-up' her. When she was in her boot from her broken foot, where ever we went it was " And where were you when I got this?"...aarrrggghhhhh! Of course the poor unsuspecting soul who's asked this usually stammers and says something like 'I don't know' or 'what happened ?' or just stammers. I usually just bury my head and try to shake the silliness out of my brain and mumble something under my breath. It's like they're reverting to a toddler stage sometimes and I can't do anything about it. I once tried to correct my Mom about how she tries to get a waiters attention. She'll look in the direction of where she thinks a waiter is and holler "HEY". Quite often the person she's hollering at is a customer for cripes sake! I've told her to let me know when she needs something and I'll get it for her or get someone to get it. But, since she's got the patience of a gnat....I'm never quick enough. I'll tell her " Mom that's a customer; wait until I see the waitress"...I usually get 'the glare' and am told not to scold her. See, we are allowed to correct children because that's how they learn. But grown adults with non existent attention spans.....it's not the same. Life........it's interesting isn't it! My 'old soul' is becoming weak and tired. My Dad does this thing I call a 'loop'. He repeats stuff over and over. I can rephrase a question or answer to him and his answer or question is always the same. His ability to understand and his ability to reason is slipping away. Very frustrating to say the least. Because one statement from him or to him can go on for hours. It doesn't happen all the time, but when it does...I can feel an energy drain. And I immediately start to wonder how long it will go on. But, ask him how to get from A to S in Tulsa and he's right on the money! Go figure. I'm getting tired. That usually happens by the end of the week. But it's a good thing I do, I know. Just frustrating. I feel for my Sisterlittle when she comes to give me my break next summer. Of course, she'll be fresh so to speak, so maybe it won't be too bad for her. I was OK for the first month or two. We'll see. Bless her heart. smooches and hugs to all. Have a good Thursday. :) |
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
Continuing on..........
All that being said....I think my Mom would be classified a 'new soul'. Yep...that's not a surprise to those who know her. I don't think. She's got an enormous amount of stuff to learn! She's such .....oh gee....should I say it?....actually put it in print?.....oh-what-the-hell.....she's such an 'attention whore! There! It's all about her..always! Even when we had Dad in the hospital last weekend, she was finding ways to get the conversation back to her whenever Dad was asked a question. Good Grief Charlie Brown!!!!!! I seriously doubt she will ever change. Naturally it's a bit late in the game for that but a part of me used to have a wee bit of hope. You know, maybe when she gets older it will stop I thought. I was told that with age comes wisdom. Uh, not with my Mom. If I hear her say how well I turned out because she raised me right, one more time, I think I'll puke! How about, I turned out ok because you only had control of me untill I was 19. How about I turned out ok because my goal was to be as different from her as possible. How about I turned out ok because ....because I'm an old soul....or at least an older soul than her. Perhaps I've had several 'past ' experiences and have learned a few things she hasn't. Possible? It's really hard for me to think that I purposely 'chose' this life though. I'm not completely comfortable with that thought process. But it's a thought. Maybe it makes it easier for me to come to terms with my feelings for my Mom if I think that way. I dunno. It is what it is. nuf said. :) |
Interesting thought process.......possibly
There are some ppl who say that we choose the life we are going to live in. Interesting yes? Sort of ? Could be??? For instance; someone who was intolerant of poor ppl in one life may choose to come back to a life that was going to experience all aspects of being poor. someone who was intolerant of races other than his own may choose to come back to a life that was going to be hated because of his race. Someone who was very poor may choose to come back as a homeless vagrant who gets his life together and becomes successful. Someone who's never experienced sickness could choose a life that will have a lot off illness and possibly deformities. Hummm.. It is also said in some circles that ppl who are the most tolerant have had many lives. They have learned through past lives that negatives don't work very well when dealing with situations or cultures or people. That what we are to learn in our all of our lives is how to live and work and care for everyone; striving to find a happy balance in our life. If this is the case, I know some ppl who have had many lives and allot who must be just starting out. I could go on and on but I think I'll leave it as it is for now. And let everyone's imagination wander. Enjoy your day! |
Friday, October 19, 2007
Warning!! Curse words ahead!!!!!!!!!
WTF is wrong w/ ppl on the Highway???!!! I know it's time to go home. I know it's Friday. But is it reaaallllly necessary to cut ppl off?/ Is it?? WHY??????? What makes your schedule so much more important than every one else? Geesh!! Get off my ass BUTTWIPE!! Yea, up yours too!!! BIOTCH!!! Watch the road and quit picking your crack scabs, butt muncher!!!!! Ok, I feel better now. Thank you very much................ carry on....:) |
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Lightning and thunder and rain--OH MY!!!!
Ye-haw!!!! Yesterday, Lovee heard that the coming storms may have some 'rotation' associated with it so we had to move fast and get the Gazebo canvas top down before it got dark. Good thing cuz I think it may have taken our deck!
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Tuesday, October 16, 2007
Just stuff........
So, yesterday was a real day off for me! Yes!!! I did have 2 appointments though. The first one was for a 'lip rip'. My gal 'Gayla' is a hoot!!! She always had a couple stories to tell about the shop owner next door ( who is crazy) that cracks me up. I tell ya, it's not good to laugh while getting your lip ripped! too funny. It's not a good idea when it's the eyebrows turn either...:) Then I had a Dr. appointment. I had 2 complaints. Heartburn was the major complaint with a smaller complaint of stopped up ears. Hummm, I thought they we seperate but the Dr. seems to think they're related. Go figure. He gave several senarios, all of them made sense....but the end result ws some meds for the heartburn that should clear up my ears too. Hummmmm, medicine is a facinating thing...isn't it Alli. The really good thing is I had no h/b at all yesterday or last night! Yay for me!!!!!!! Lovee and I rented a couple movies. Even Almighty and Superman. They were funny and didn't take too much thought which was what we wanted. It went along with our relaxing day. I even cooked dinner! Wonders never cease. Today the Mom has a Dr. appt. Hopefully she'll get the boot off her foot. Lord help me if she doesn't!!! She'll cry for sure. Keep the finners crossed.....PLEASE!!!!! I'm not in a typing mood right now so I'll go get some more chores done. :) Ya'll have a wondermus day! tt |
Sunday, October 14, 2007
Smart car!!
Have you seen anything in your life so cute?? Well, ..besides a Porsche or a Cooper....??
And look how happy Lovee was!!! He probably won't wash his butt for a week now! LOL
We had to fill out a release to drive them and one of 'their' ppl had to be with you but that was ok..who cares...just as long as we get to do the driving, right?!! We had seen one of these cars in Athens and all the guys went nuts over them. They should be available to purchase in the US next year. Fact. ...There was a form to fill out if you wanted to reserve one. All you had to do was out down $ 99.00. We didn't do that but Lovee deffinitely wants one!
This was a great way to spend the afternoon!
Friday, October 12, 2007
I finally found out why the Mom keeps reminding me to do stuff and why she keeps asking me if I've done a particular task. Geez-o-pete....I did it to myself for cripe's sake!!! I once told her about how I strongly suspect that I have and have had ADD forever. I told her how my day would go at times and how I get 'distracted' from doing things. WELL..........being the conscientious Mom that she is, she feels it's justified and actually her DUTY to help me remember things. Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. As if that makes it better.....NOT! ( I'm reverting back to the 80"s here ...sorry) Yesterday, I fixed them Hotdogs for dinner. (Ummmm, ETK's favorite!!) Well, I think it tastes better if the buns are toasted so I buttered them and put them under the broiler. Mom comes in and says " both knobs have to be on broil"..."Yes", I say," I know...I did that". "Well, you forgot one time so I'm reminding you." I didn't reply to that...I took a deep breath! So a few seconds pass and she says " Did you butter them first?" Man, you shoulda seen me whip around, put my hands on my hips and duck down to eye level with her and say" No, i just threw them in there plain, I ALWAYS put them in there w/o butter.................(snidely...I go on to say with a bit of a chuckle)...of course they have butter on them Mom." " Well, I was just checking because you get distracted sometimes." OH SHIT!!! I'm the one who's created this monster.....!! So I had to explain the difference in getting distracted and forgetting things. I think being snide made me feel better for some reason. I think I'll keep doing that. wahaaahaaaahaaaa she says evilishly..........:) |
Thursday, October 11, 2007
Some Friday humor.......;)
A Love Story I will seek and find you. I shall take you to bed and have my way with you. I will make you ache, shake & sweat until you moan & groan. I will make you beg for mercy, beg for me to stop. I will exhaust you to the point that you will be relieved when I'm finished with you. And, when I am finished, you will be weak for days .All my love......., The Flu Now, get your mind out of the gutter and go get your flu shot! |
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
Ramble-ie Snipits
Yesterday was a good day w/ the Mom. She was smiling biggly when I got there and said they missed me. She actually behaved all day. ( I'm going to wait untill she gets cranky to talk w/ her.) It felt like I was gone for a long time actually. I needed that break for sure. I left at 10 Saturday morning and didn't go back untill Sunday @ 5p.m.. Then Lovee and I left about 7 ( after dinner at Rib Crib..yummy) and I didn't go there at all Monday!!!!!!! It was a much needed break. ************************************* Lovee had to go to the Dr. Monday. Now he's got a colonoscopy scheduled in a month. Yea....he's thrilled. I told him it was the gentlemanly thing to go first. ( snicker) I'll go later.... We are over 50 ya know...............yea...yea..yea.....blah......blah....blah..... ************************************* I'm starting to work on my Christmas gift list. I LOVE Christmas!! This year will be a bit different though. We wont have any kids here with us. Not that that's a bad thing. It's just that last year we had 4 kids and their spouses. What fun that was!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It was a bit on the expensive side, but I was working then so it was no big deal. This year, however, will be a whole new situation. I'm thinking gifts will be on the skimpy side. No biggie I'm sure. I'm just gonna wrap a wee bit more 'love' inside the boxes. :) ************************************* My mind keeps wandering lately. Where does it wander you ask? Not sure really.....but I keep wondering how long I'll be in this current situation. Is that terrible of me? It's not like I have something terribly exciting to look forward to, I'm just curious. I mean afterall, when this 'job' is over, my life will take a different direction. My family will have changed it's players so to speak. Interesting to think about. Hard to imagine. ************************************* I'd be lost w/o Lovee! ************************************* Played phone tag w/ ETK yesterday.....Hope I get to talk w/ her today. She's such a bright spot! ************************************* Thought for the day............. Attitudes are contageous..............is your worth catching? Huggles to all!!!!!! tt |
Monday, October 8, 2007
Before and After
This is the good one. It was when we first got there. We did look a wee bit on the 'fresh' side I think.
Sunday, October 7, 2007
%&^%^#$*&^&&*^&$@#!@
I'm rubber You're glue What bounces off me sticks to you I'm feeling 6 today....maybe 7. I'm not sure if kids say that stuff anymore. But sometime during my frustrations about the Mom...this popped into my head. silly I tell ya...... I think I'm on the verge of loosing it. Stay tuned. It could get interesting. |
Friday, October 5, 2007
Mom and her moods.......grrrrrrrrrrr
Ya know, I have alot of different moods. We all do to some extent. But it seems to me that my Mother has cornered the market on mood fluctuations. Seriously. It boggles my mind sometimes. She is possibly the most consistantly unhappy person I've ever known. I'm sure these days her meds could be a contributing factor as could her age. But I also think that day to day life feelings can be controlled, somewhat, by your mental attitude. One can choose to be down or up. As I've said, there are alot of factors that go into how a person views their world. I'm really looking forward to Lovee's and my vacation next summer but, my poor Sisterlittle will probably bear the brunt of Mon's selfishness. Sister says everything she'll do will be compared to me and she won't do anything right. That's probably true. Mom is like that. I hate that she will have to go through that. But I'm sooooooooooooooo looking forward to the time off. Unfortunately, that will be Sisterlittle's vacation. The rest of her time off from teaching will be spent getting ready for the new school year or doing her Master's stuff. Guess I'll have to figure out a way to tell the Mom to behave while I'm gone. Ugh!!!!!!!! Please tell me I won't be like this when I'm old!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks for the vent. :) |
Wednesday, October 3, 2007
Squishes from the grape
I love watching Dancing w/ the Stars! Mainly because I've always LOVED Ballroom dancing. But this year especially because my man Helio is on!!!!!!! He's doing fabulous I might add!! ********************************** I had a huge fit of road rage yesterday evening...during a huge storm! Some elfing-buttmonkey-stupido-freaking woman was getting ON the hwy and apparently didn't look to see that I was right next to her. I had NO WHERE to go...couldn't change lanes coz someone was right next to me. The rain was like a wall of water...I usually call them 'voids' because you can't see anything! Anyway, I layed on my horn because she was literally inches from me! Well, as you might guess, that evidently pissed her off. She fell in behind me then sped up and cut-me-the-fuck-off...seriously! In an elfing freaking storm from hell! Then, she slowed down and I could see her shaking her fist at me! I was talking to ETK at the time....I may have scared her..not sure..cuz I started screaming at the biotch....I had to have a bit of a release......I know it didn't make a difference but I was sooooo amazed that someone would be so utterly stupid...IN A STORM!!! Freak! *************************************************** Baby girl moved into her new house yesterday!!!!!! Woo-hoo! After a few snafu's everything went smooth. Lovee helped her and Jeanne move everything. He's really sore this morning as are the girls I'm sure. He smashed a couple finners moving the fridge into the house but other than that , it went great! It was done before the storm hit thank goodness.Look at running through sunshine's blog to see pics. She's sooo proud! As she should be! **************************************************** Lovee told me last night, AFTER he drove home in that storm that the Cougar needs rear brakes! So, I get to take it in today for some new shoes. I usually love shopping for shoes but this won't be as fun. :) ****************************************************** Mom got some sort of good news yesterday about her eyes. The lens's she had put in when she had her cateract surgery have clouded. That's what made her vision go so bad just before I started caring for them. Well, the next 2 Mondays, the Dr, is going to lazer them to fix it. YAY! He also said that her eyes are going from 'dry' to 'wet' macular degeneration. I don't know anything about that or that they even did that. But, evidently when that happens there is a procedure that can be done to help with her vision. YAY!!!! again. More on all this when it happens. Keep those finners crossed (and anything else you can find) that it helps. ****************************************************** My BFF and I are going to the fair this weekend. Should be fun... Of course I'll have to indulge in several sins.........funnel cake, fudge,corn dogs and a carmel apple. But that'll be it. I'll think about ETK with every bite. Maybe she'll get the pleasure of it all through osmosis?! :) Have a good one ya'll! |